sexual healing

Give your lover a yoni massage

Give your lover a yoni massage

A yoni massage is a way to offer your lover healing and restorative touch. A yoni massage is something you offer with no strings attached. This is a practice that is simply focused on her, and it's important to go in with a clear intention: you will offer this massage as a way of healing your lover (and/or giving her pleasure).

The Wild One of You

The Wild One of You

There is a wild one in you, one who dances by the fire. One who gets down in the mud and kisses the earth. One who swims naked in the moonlight.

One who hasn’t forgotten.

One who is as human as she is sacred. As dirty as she is divine. One who is animal, connected, all-knowing.

What is Sexuality Coaching?

What is Sexuality Coaching?

When we aren’t given options, we lose sight of the myriad of possibility around sexual expression. It’s harder to uncover our own unique desires and flavor of sexuality when there are no role models, and when “sexy” looks just one way in the media.

Sexuality coaching allows you to discover your own sexuality, free from the stories that have been given to you from culture, your parents, friends, lovers, etc. It’s a compassionate, held space where you can untangle the web of your sexual experiences and desires, and experience healing and integration.

Is Sexuality Sacred?

Is Sexuality Sacred?

I posit that sex is sacred because Life is sacred. We exist because of sex, and the act of sex couldn't be more natural. If Life is sacred, so is sex. Almost every person has a story of contacting their natural sexuality as a child—and having it shamed or chastised out of them, to live on in dark corners of the mind and body. When we're shamed about sex when we're young, it causes a lifelong undercurrent of self-questioning. We worry that we're sinners, or that there's something wrong with us. In our unconscious, sex gets connected with these false and disparaging thoughts.

The "Truth" About Yoni Eggs

The "Truth" About Yoni Eggs

So, here’s what Truth actually is: truth is a felt-sense in our own bodies. Truth is inner authority. For me, truth doesn’t come from an external source, even if that source went to medical school. Truth comes from my own experience. Outsourcing truth to a doctor, to a lover, to a parent, to a friend—that’s where we, historically, as women, lose our power, and fade into the background again, not trusting ourselves, our intuition, or our bodies.

Daddy Issues

Daddy Issues

The daddy thing shows up like this: when I'm really turned on by a man fully in his masculine (like when he's fixing something, taking care of me, or working on something he's passionate about), I think the word "daddy," sometimes over and over, and get fully weak in the knees (who knew that was a thing that literally happened?). This happens during sex too, of course, or we wouldn't be here.

Originally published December 2017.